Another resolution for 2010 is I need to appreciate all that is going right in my life and stop dwelling on things that are not within my control to change.I had lunch with friends today and we talked about making the choice to focus on the positive and how easy it is to accept things that are negative. All I could think about during this conversation was how unhappy my love life or lack thereof has been. Silly. That I couldn't even shake the feeling while we were talking about it. But I've been single for a quite a while and I don't want to be. Why do we always want what we don't or can't have?