What does it all mean, really?

On most gay sites(chat rooms,IM's,etc )there's a lot of talk about who is a top, who's a bottom, and who's versatile. I consider myself versatile because I like it all. LOL! For some reason there are people out there that say versatile guys are just "glorified" bottoms. I'm not quite sure why there's a connotation about the versatile label. I'll let guys call me whatever they wanna call me. Bottom/Top, Top/Vers, Vers/Bottom, Bottom. I just don't understand the need to categorize every detail of our sexual proclivities. I mean, isn't it more fun to find out on your own with a guy you think is hot? Rather than just posting every single thing you enjoy. When I run across these profiles it's a kind of a turn off. I want to hook up with someone that's open to the experience and will go with me wherever our cocks lead us. Does this make me old fashioned or on the fence? I'm not bi for christ's sake.

Give it a yank for me,

-D

And I Know Him, But Not Really

I received a random add request on myspace a few weeks ago. The first thing I noticed when I hit the link was "Hot House Exclusive" lettering plastered all over the background. So I figured, ugh, another spam porn ad. But once I opened the pics I realized it was a local guy that I'd chatted with online but never had the nerve to say hello in person. So bad was my shyness that he'd kinda tease me about it after we'd see one another at various places around our midwestern city.


Turns out he got into doing porn after getting "discovered" at IML earlier this year. I suppose it would be wrong to mention his real name. He's now known as Ethan Wolfe, Hot House Exclusive. I shoulda jumped on him or let him pounce on me when I thought there was a chance. LOL..... You can check out his blog here... http://www.ethanwolfexxx.com/

Threesomes, good or bad idea?

Let me know what you think. This is my first blog so take it easy on me. Thanks.