Saturday, December 27, 2008

Two Thousand Nine

I've never been much of a goal-oriented person. But I'm planning on making 2009 a big year for me. My top ten goals in order:

1. Lose weight (at this pace I'm heading for heart attack & diabetes-land)
2. Move (either to a new apartment now or buy a house by spring 2010)
3. Drink less. (it adds nothing to my life, and will help me achieve goal 1 & 4)
4. Go debt free by 2010 (first time in almost 6 years)
5. Apply for new positions at work. (bring on some change)
6. Fly somewhere (likely North Carolina in March or April)
7. See as many concerts as possible. (Andrew Bird, Rufus, Muse, & Daytrotter shows)
8. Take 1 or 2 road trips with friends to a new city (Atlanta, Denver, or SF sound fun)
9. Be more bold about approaching guys that interest me.
10. Find volleyball leagues to play in year round.

I'm excited, and up for the challenge.

Friday, October 24, 2008

NY Times Endorses Obama For President

October 24, 2008
Editorial
Barack Obama for President
Hyperbole is the currency of presidential campaigns, but this year the nation's future truly hangs in the balance.

The United States is battered and drifting after eight years of President Bush's failed leadership. He is saddling his successor with two wars, a scarred global image and a government systematically stripped of its ability to protect and help its citizens — whether they are fleeing a hurricane's floodwaters, searching for affordable health care or struggling to hold on to their homes, jobs, savings and pensions in the midst of a financial crisis that was foretold and preventable.

As tough as the times are, the selection of a new president is easy. After nearly two years of a grueling and ugly campaign, Senator Barack Obama of Illinois has proved that he is the right choice to be the 44th president of the United States.

Mr. Obama has met challenge after challenge, growing as a leader and putting real flesh on his early promises of hope and change. He has shown a cool head and sound judgment. We believe he has the will and the ability to forge the broad political consensus that is essential to finding solutions to this nation's problems.

In the same time, Senator John McCain of Arizona has retreated farther and farther to the fringe of American politics, running a campaign on partisan division, class warfare and even hints of racism. His policies and worldview are mired in the past. His choice of a running mate so evidently unfit for the office was a final act of opportunism and bad judgment that eclipsed the accomplishments of 26 years in Congress.

Given the particularly ugly nature of Mr. McCain's campaign, the urge to choose on the basis of raw emotion is strong. But there is a greater value in looking closely at the facts of life in America today and at the prescriptions the candidates offer. The differences are profound.

Mr. McCain offers more of the Republican every-man-for-himself ideology, now lying in shards on Wall Street and in Americans' bank accounts. Mr. Obama has another vision of government's role and responsibilities.

In his convention speech in Denver, Mr. Obama said, "Government cannot solve all our problems, but what it should do is that which we cannot do for ourselves: protect us from harm and provide every child a decent education; keep our water clean and our toys safe; invest in new schools and new roads and new science and technology."

Since the financial crisis, he has correctly identified the abject failure of government regulation that has brought the markets to the brink of collapse.

The Economy

The American financial system is the victim of decades of Republican deregulatory and anti-tax policies. Those ideas have been proved wrong at an unfathomable price, but Mr. McCain — a self-proclaimed "foot soldier in the Reagan revolution" — is still a believer.

Mr. Obama sees that far-reaching reforms will be needed to protect Americans and American business.

Mr. McCain talks about reform a lot, but his vision is pinched. His answer to any economic question is to eliminate pork-barrel spending — about $18 billion in a $3 trillion budget — cut taxes and wait for unfettered markets to solve the problem.

Mr. Obama is clear that the nation's tax structure must be changed to make it fairer. That means the well-off Americans who have benefited disproportionately from Mr. Bush's tax cuts will have to pay some more. Working Americans, who have seen their standard of living fall and their children's options narrow, will benefit. Mr. Obama wants to raise the minimum wage and tie it to inflation, restore a climate in which workers are able to organize unions if they wish and expand educational opportunities.

Mr. McCain, who once opposed President Bush's tax cuts for the wealthy as fiscally irresponsible, now wants to make them permanent. And while he talks about keeping taxes low for everyone, his proposed cuts would overwhelmingly benefit the top 1 percent of Americans while digging the country into a deeper fiscal hole.

National Security

The American military — its people and equipment — is dangerously overstretched. Mr. Bush has neglected the necessary war in Afghanistan, which now threatens to spiral into defeat. The unnecessary and staggeringly costly war in Iraq must be ended as quickly and responsibly as possible.

While Iraq's leaders insist on a swift drawdown of American troops and a deadline for the end of the occupation, Mr. McCain is still talking about some ill-defined "victory." As a result, he has offered no real plan for extracting American troops and limiting any further damage to Iraq and its neighbors.

Mr. Obama was an early and thoughtful opponent of the war in Iraq, and he has presented a military and diplomatic plan for withdrawing American forces. Mr. Obama also has correctly warned that until the Pentagon starts pulling troops out of Iraq, there will not be enough troops to defeat the Taliban and Al Qaeda in Afghanistan.

Mr. McCain, like Mr. Bush, has only belatedly focused on Afghanistan's dangerous unraveling and the threat that neighboring Pakistan may quickly follow.

Mr. Obama would have a learning curve on foreign affairs, but he has already showed sounder judgment than his opponent on these critical issues. His choice of Senator Joseph Biden — who has deep foreign-policy expertise — as his running mate is another sign of that sound judgment. Mr. McCain's long interest in foreign policy and the many dangers this country now faces make his choice of Gov. Sarah Palin of Alaska more irresponsible.

Both presidential candidates talk about strengthening alliances in Europe and Asia, including NATO, and strongly support Israel. Both candidates talk about repairing America's image in the world. But it seems clear to us that Mr. Obama is far more likely to do that — and not just because the first black president would present a new American face to the world.

Mr. Obama wants to reform the United Nations, while Mr. McCain wants to create a new entity, the League of Democracies — a move that would incite even fiercer anti-American furies around the world.

Unfortunately, Mr. McCain, like Mr. Bush, sees the world as divided into friends (like Georgia) and adversaries (like Russia). He proposed kicking Russia out of the Group of 8 industrialized nations even before the invasion of Georgia. We have no sympathy for Moscow's bullying, but we also have no desire to replay the cold war. The United States must find a way to constrain the Russians' worst impulses, while preserving the ability to work with them on arms control and other vital initiatives.

Both candidates talk tough on terrorism, and neither has ruled out military action to end Iran's nuclear weapons program. But Mr. Obama has called for a serious effort to try to wean Tehran from its nuclear ambitions with more credible diplomatic overtures and tougher sanctions. Mr. McCain's willingness to joke about bombing Iran was frightening.

The Constitution and the Rule of Law

Under Mr. Bush and Vice President Dick Cheney, the Constitution, the Bill of Rights, the justice system and the separation of powers have come under relentless attack. Mr. Bush chose to exploit the tragedy of Sept. 11, 2001, the moment in which he looked like the president of a unified nation, to try to place himself above the law.

Mr. Bush has arrogated the power to imprison men without charges and browbeat Congress into granting an unfettered authority to spy on Americans. He has created untold numbers of "black" programs, including secret prisons and outsourced torture. The president has issued hundreds, if not thousands, of secret orders. We fear it will take years of forensic research to discover how many basic rights have been violated.

Both candidates have renounced torture and are committed to closing the prison camp in Guantánamo Bay, Cuba.

But Mr. Obama has gone beyond that, promising to identify and correct Mr. Bush's attacks on the democratic system. Mr. McCain has been silent on the subject.

Mr. McCain improved protections for detainees. But then he helped the White House push through the appalling Military Commissions Act of 2006, which denied detainees the right to a hearing in a real court and put Washington in conflict with the Geneva Conventions, greatly increasing the risk to American troops.

The next president will have the chance to appoint one or more justices to a Supreme Court that is on the brink of being dominated by a radical right wing. Mr. Obama may appoint less liberal judges than some of his followers might like, but Mr. McCain is certain to pick rigid ideologues. He has said he would never appoint a judge who believes in women's reproductive rights.

The Candidates

It will be an enormous challenge just to get the nation back to where it was before Mr. Bush, to begin to mend its image in the world and to restore its self-confidence and its self-respect. Doing all of that, and leading America forward, will require strength of will, character and intellect, sober judgment and a cool, steady hand.

Mr. Obama has those qualities in abundance. Watching him being tested in the campaign has long since erased the reservations that led us to endorse Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton in the Democratic primaries. He has drawn in legions of new voters with powerful messages of hope and possibility and calls for shared sacrifice and social responsibility.

Mr. McCain, whom we chose as the best Republican nominee in the primaries, has spent the last coins of his reputation for principle and sound judgment to placate the limitless demands and narrow vision of the far-right wing. His righteous fury at being driven out of the 2000 primaries on a racist tide aimed at his adopted daughter has been replaced by a zealous embrace of those same win-at-all-costs tactics and tacticians.

He surrendered his standing as an independent thinker in his rush to embrace Mr. Bush's misbegotten tax policies and to abandon his leadership position on climate change and immigration reform.

Mr. McCain could have seized the high ground on energy and the environment. Earlier in his career, he offered the first plausible bill to control America's emissions of greenhouse gases. Now his positions are a caricature of that record: think Ms. Palin leading chants of "drill, baby, drill."

Mr. Obama has endorsed some offshore drilling, but as part of a comprehensive strategy including big investments in new, clean technologies.

Mr. Obama has withstood some of the toughest campaign attacks ever mounted against a candidate. He's been called un-American and accused of hiding a secret Islamic faith. The Republicans have linked him to domestic terrorists and questioned his wife's love of her country. Ms. Palin has also questioned millions of Americans' patriotism, calling Republican-leaning states "pro-America."

This politics of fear, division and character assassination helped Mr. Bush drive Mr. McCain from the 2000 Republican primaries and defeat Senator John Kerry in 2004. It has been the dominant theme of his failed presidency.

The nation's problems are simply too grave to be reduced to slashing "robo-calls" and negative ads. This country needs sensible leadership, compassionate leadership, honest leadership and strong leadership. Barack Obama has shown that he has all of those qualities.

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Monday, October 13, 2008

Sex Survey Said!

HOW KINKY ARE YOU?
WHAT AGE DID YOU FIRST SUCK COCK?20
WHAT AGE DID YOU FIRST TASTE PISS?never
WHAT AGE DID YOU FIRST GET FUCKED?23
HAVE YOU TAKEN ANY BOY'S VIRGINITY?yes
HAVE YOU BEEN WITH ANY RELATIVES?no
HAVE YOU BEEN WITH SOMEONE UNDERAGE?no
WHAT IS THE GREATEST AGE DIFFERENCE YOU HAVE BEEN WITH?15 yrs older, 14 yrs younger
DO YOU HAVE FANTASIES YOU CANNNOT ACT ON?who doesn't?
ARE THEY ILLEGAL?no
HAVE YOU HAD SEX IN PUBLIC?yes
MOST UNCONVENTIONAL PLACE FOR SEX?hotel balcony
MOST NUMBER OF PEOPLE YOU HAVE BEEN WITH AT ONE TIME?3
HAVE YOU HAD 3 WAYS WITHIN A RELATIONSHIP?no
HAVE YOU DONE 3 WAYS WITH BROTHERS/RELATIVES?no
HAVE YOU HAD SEX IN A CAR?yes
WAS THE CAR MOVING?yes
MOST UNCONVENTIONAL PLACE FOR SEX IN A CAR? while driving I guess
HAVE YOU DONE BONDAGE?no
HAVE YOU DONE RAPE ROLE PLAY?no
DO YOU LIKE PAIN?no
FAVORITE SEXUAL ACTIVITY?fucking, top or bottom
SECOND FAVORITE SEXUAL ACTIVITY?sucking
THIRD FAVORITE SEXUAL ACTIVITY?kissing, wrestling
FOURTH FAVORITE SEXUAL ACTIVITY?frottage
HAVE YOU HAD SEX IN A PUBLIC RESTROOM?yes
HAVE YOU SUCKED COCK AT A GLORY HOLE?yes
KINKIEST THING YOU WERE DARED TO DO?wearing leather harness during sex
DID YOU DO IT?yes
WOULD YOU DO IT AGAIN?yes
Favorite Cartoon (except Bugs Bunny)Family Guy
Do You Like ThunderstormsYes
In the Past Month Have You Drank AlcoholYes
In the Past Month Have You Been on DrugsNo
In the Past Month Have You Been on a DateNo
In the Past Month Have You Eaten SushiNo
In the Past Month Have You Been on StageNo
In the Past Month Have You Been DumpedNo
In the Past Month Have You Skinny DippedNo
In the Past Month Have You Stolen AnythingNo
Ever Been DrunkYes
Ever Been Called a TeaseYes
Ever Been Beaten UpNo
Ever ShopliftedYes
How Do You Want to DieNo, but I have no choice I will one day
What Do You Want to be When You Grow UpLoved and Wealthy
What Country Would You Most Like to VisitItaly
In A Boy
Favorite Eye ColorBlue
Favorite Hair ColorDark Brown/Black
Short or Long HairShort
Height5'8 or taller
Weightdoesn't matter so much because it changes
Best Clothing Stylenude
Number of Drugs I've Takennone
Number of CDs I Ownover 300
Number of Piercings4
Number of TattoosNone, but pondering one
Thought About Getting a Tattoohell yes
Number of Things in My Past I Regreta few here and there, not enough room for detail
Are You the Spooner or the Spoonee>
Do you get Motion Sickness>

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Thursday, September 18, 2008

There Has to Be a Better Way....

I have an issue with the amount of trash generated by fast food restaurants. I'll focus on Buffalo Wild Wings for this blog. Only because that's where my neighbors work and the company is building another store in my town. BWW has a decent sit-down/belly-up sports bar atmosphere, but then serve everything in disposable paper trays and plastic flatware. I assume they then toss everything into the trash. I wonder how many tons of trash per year this adds to landfills? I'm sure this keeps their overhead low by not having to pay as many dishwashers and replacing broken or worn out dishes & glasses but at what cost to the environment? Wouldn't it make more "green" sense to use real flatware and reusable plastic containers? Maybe they do recycle these containers somehow. Maybe the water it takes to wash dishes would be just as costly & harmful to the planet? I don't know. But I know we all have to do our part to "think green" these days. And this just seems the opposite of that. They do build energy efficient stores though, so that's a plus.

Remember the days when burgers came in thin paper wrappers? Now they're served in cardboard boxes. Perhaps this is a business opportunity or area of innovation waiting to be explored. Fast Food Waste Management Inc. sounds professional enough.

Possibly using large type food items to hold loose food. Like a fried potato "bowl" with chicken wings inside of it. Eat the wings and the bowl = no trash to toss out. OR serve your dine-in customers on a plate that can be washed? It doesn't have to be fancy. Just durable and washable. Currently Subway, McDonald's, Arby's, Carl's Jr, Hardee's, Wendy's, etc wrap their sandwiches and fries in some type of paper product and either put the meal on a tray with another sheet of paper or into a bag with napkins. Wouldn't it be great if there were an edible or reusable alternative? We could save more trees, cut down on litter, and reduce the amount of trash sent to landfills.

As with all systems, I'm sure it's more complicated than just these small steps. But there are a hell of a lot smarter, motivated people out there than me.

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

A Green Rant

I have an issue with the amount of trash generated by a Buffalo Wild Wings restaurant or any fast food place for that matter. I'll focus on BWW for this blog. BWW has a decent sit down/belly up sports bar atmosphere but then serve everything in disposable paper trays and plastic flatware. I assume they then tossed into the trash. I wonder how many tons of trash per year this adds to area landfills? I'm sure this keeps their overhead low by not having to pay dishwashers and replace broken or worn out dishes & glasses but at what cost to the environment? Wouldn't it make more "green" sense to use real flatware and reusable plastic containers? Maybe they do recycle these containers. Maybe the water it takes to wash dishes would be just as costly & harmful to the planet? I just know we all have to do our part to "think green" these days. Remember the days when burgers came in thin paper wrappers? Now they're served in cardboard boxes. Perhaps this is a business opportunity or area of innovation waiting to be explored. Fast food trash reduction.

Possibly using large type food items to hold loose food. Like a fried potato "bowl" with chicken wings inside of it. Eat the wings and the bowl = no trash to toss out. OR serve your dine-in customers on a plate that can be washed? It doesn't have to be fancy. Just durable and washable. Currently Subway, McDonald's, Arby's, Carl's Jr, Hardee's, Wendy's, etc wrap their sandwiches and fries in some type of paper product and either put the meal on a tray with another sheet of paper or into a bag with napkins. Wouldn't it be great if there were an edible or reusable alternative? We could save more trees and reduce trash sent to landfills.

Sunday, September 14, 2008

Paralysis.....

I still sleep on the left side of the bed.
And wake up clutching his pillow.
We haven't spoke in seven months.
I convinced myself it was time to let go.
After my birthday, how selfish.

Writing about this brings back memories.
Of turning to him for comfort after my cousin's death.
Of the week long trip to Chicago.
Of sharing the news I would be an uncle.
I really miss him hearing that I'll be an uncle again.

There is at least a daily story that involves him.
Occasionally vague, but often by name.
I told a friend today how much he hated mushrooms.
Never allowing them in spaghetti sauce.
He said they were like tongues, but I love mushrooms.

He'd never pass gas in front of me,
Except in his sleep.
Once, I dried the small of his back
Whispering wet back in his ear.
Completely forgetting the words offensive connotation.

He was rightfully leary of my family.
And I was unfairly protective of them.
He rarely ignored or missed a word I said
Although I often accused him of not listening.
And now I say nothing for fear no one is listening.

I believe he has moved on from the heartache I caused.
I sometimes wonder if I can.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

What does it all mean, really?

On most gay sites(chat rooms,IM's,etc )there's a lot of talk about who is a top, who's a bottom, and who's versatile. I consider myself versatile because I like it all. LOL! For some reason there are people out there that say versatile guys are just "glorified" bottoms. I'm not quite sure why there's a connotation about the versatile label. I'll let guys call me whatever they wanna call me. Bottom/Top, Top/Vers, Vers/Bottom, Bottom. I just don't understand the need to categorize every detail of our sexual proclivities. I mean, isn't it more fun to find out on your own with a guy you think is hot? Rather than just posting every single thing you enjoy. When I run across these profiles it's a kind of a turn off. I want to hook up with someone that's open to the experience and will go with me wherever our cocks lead us. Does this make me old fashioned or on the fence? I'm not bi for christ's sake.

Give it a yank for me,

-D

No Mas Republicanos, Por Favor!

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Tuesday, September 9, 2008

No Surprise, I'm A Sinner

Greed:High
 
Gluttony:High
 
Wrath:High
 
Sloth:Very High
 
Envy:High
 
Lust:Very High
 
Pride:High
 


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Monday, September 8, 2008

I Saw Radiohead In Concert!

I was lucky enough to see Radiohead in concert this summer. The two videos posted below are from the show. I filmed from our lawn seats. We saw them at Verizon Wireless Music Center (formerly Deer Creek Amphiteater) Noblesville, IN (Indianapolis) on 8/3/08. I thought audio turned out better than many other videos I've seen on youtube. Enjoy: 15 Step, and Just(Do It To Yourself)



And I Know Him, But Not Really

I received a random add request on myspace a few weeks ago. The first thing I noticed when I hit the link was "Hot House Exclusive" lettering plastered all over the background. So I figured, ugh, another spam porn ad. But once I opened the pics I realized it was a local guy that I'd chatted with online but never had the nerve to say hello in person. So bad was my shyness that he'd kinda tease me about it after we'd see one another at various places around our midwestern city.

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Turns out he got into doing porn after getting "discovered" at IML earlier this year. I suppose it would be wrong to mention his real name. He's now known as Ethan Wolfe, Hot House Exclusive. I shoulda jumped on him or let him pounce on me when I thought there was a chance. LOL..... You can check out his blog here... http://www.ethanwolfexxx.com/

Appea(red) in Explore on Flickr.com

My creation

Thursday, April 24, 2008

Court Says Student Can Wear Anti-Gay T-shirt

First, check out this article from the Argus/QConline.com. At the end was my response and a link so you can add your own comments.

Court says student can wear anti-gay T-shirt

April 24, 2008 4:36 PM

CHICAGO (AP) -- A federal appeals court says a suburban Chicago student (douche) can wear a "Be Happy, Not Gay" T-shirt at his high school.
The decision overturns a lower court's ruling (correct) that sided with the Naperville school's move to ban the anti-gay shirt. The school argued the shirt's message is derogatory and could disrupt education.

The 7th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals (what do they know?) ruled Wednesday that the school can't justifying banning Alexander Nuxoll (douche) from wearing the T-shirt on the grounds it might provoke incidents of harassment of homosexuals.

Attorneys (older douches in suits) (for the Neuqua (NEE'-kwah) Valley High School sophomore welcomed the ruling. They call it a victory for students' First Amendment rights.





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My response..........

The point of being in school is to get an education. Anything that detracts from that process should be removed. When I was in high school they wouldn't let girls wear spaghetti strap/revealing tops and they banned shirts with Spuds MCKenzie and other alcohol ads on them. How was that any different? I should have taken my case to court! What a joke.

Does this mean they should also allow racist, sexist, anti-semitic, anti-christian attire as well? If you're going to allow one, you must allow all. After all that is what freedom of speech means, right?

High school is notoriously unsafe for gay and lesbian kids. Check the case files and teen suicide rates. The sad part is that the kid wearing the shirt will probably come out of the closet in the next few years. Schools have an obligation to ALL students to provide a safe, non-hostile environment, centered on learning. Let's keep the politics in Poly Sci class, shall we......

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Saturday, March 1, 2008

SPOON, the Walkmen & White Rabbits

Mammoth and Daytrotter present :

SPOON, w/ special guests the Walkmen & White Rabbits

@ The Capitol Theater

Davenport, IA

April 3, 2008 @ 8pm

Click here to check out a video for Spoon

And here for a video by The Walkmen

again here for White Rabbit's appearance on David Letterman

Three excellent bands with songs I'm sure you'll recognize and tickets only $20.

That beats spending $40 -$100 for nosebleed seats to watch some old fart "star" at iWireless Center.

Keep your eye on coming events at The Cap. They do serve alcohol and the more people check out these first concerts, the better chance we'll have to draw even bigger names. It's a 1500 seat General Admission theater that's not as stuffy as the Adler Theater. If you remember mid-90's Palmer concerts and wish up and coming artists would make stops in the QC, then you HAVE to check this one out.

I'm checking it out, tickets are $20 and available through Ticketmaster.com